Ah, the beauty of summer, with its never ending warm, sunshine filled days that entice us to take the long way home and drink in the cocktail of colors. Where annuals and perennials conspire with wildflowers to present us with a symphony of sights that are in a constant state of transformation is where I have chosen to reside. In fact, I have become so enraptured with this season, I have all but forgotten to share it with you.
Bijou Blanket brimming with color
Rudbekia, a staple in our garden
Queen Anne's Lace
‘Tis the season to bring the indoors out, and enjoy every moment from dawn till dusk and beyond. So, as the sun disappears and gives way to the cool breezes that usher in starry nights, Irwin and I like to add our own brand of illumination: candlelight.
What can be more enchanting on a tranquil summer evening than the warm glow of candlelight?
We know only too well how instrumental candles are in setting the proper mood either indoors or out during any season, but candlelight outdoors during summer is absolutely sublime.
A real Connection
A star is born
It is the season of infinite possibilities so use your imagination. Many found objects in your home can be the perfect vessel for a candle or tea light. An old lantern that we purchased our first summer in the house sits along side an inverted vintage capiz shell lampshade that houses a candle.
Our 1st lantern, previously owned by Betsey Johnson
While we employ a variety of candles, we particularly love using tea lights because they are small and can be placed in a wide array of vessels. Additionally, these short burning beauties are readily available and extremely inexpensive.
Shades of light
We have a collection of glasses that we taped and frosted ten years ago for a family event. We continue to enjoy them especially during the summer.
Ten years....and still going strong
And a vintage silverplate bowl we picked up at a tag sale many years ago has served a multitude of uses, most recently as a candle holder.
Vintage Silverplate shedding new light
And until a better solution comes along, it is absolutely necessary to integrate citronella candles into the mix.
Citronella helps take the bite out of a summer evening
The possibilities are endless and only limited by your imagination. So make the most of every evening,
and this weekend, as the fireflies make their special brand of magic in the moonlit sky, make a little magic of your own and create a Midsummer Lights Dream.
This past Saturday night we hosted our first “Road Party” in the country and it was spectacular!It was attended by nine families including ours and was so successful, we have decided to make it an annual event.
Unlike suburban neighborhoods with streetlights and sidewalks, our road in the country is light-less and dirt. While our home is situated close to the road, most of the other homes that dot our road are nestled in the mountainside at the end of dirt driveways, many of which are a half mile long or more.
That being the case, it should come as no surprise that after ten summers in the country, we knew little, if anything about our neighbors.But all that changed last summer, when we met our new neighbor Jeanne and her dog Zippy.
Zippy and Charlie became fast friends and Charlie (as well as Irwin & myself) eagerly anticipated Zippy & Jeanne’s impromptu visits before or after their afternoon walk.Jeanne, living here full time for half the year had managed to meet more local people in her first month here, than we had met in the ten years previous and it was through her that we finally met some of our neighbors last Labor Day.
Zippy & Charlie: Best Buddies
This year Jeanne had a brilliant idea.She suggested we collaborate and host a “Road Party” to get to know more of our “hidden” neighbors. Because there is nothing we enjoy more than hosting a party, we immediately offered our home for the event.Jeanne dropped mailers in every mailbox and under every front door she could find on our half of the road (the road is over three miles long) asking people to RSVP and bring an appetizer, side or dessert.We had no idea who or what to expect and the result was more wonderful than we could have ever anticipated.
Our neighbors regardless of whether they were able to attend or not, called and emailed telling us how much they loved the idea of a road party. Despite never having any discussion about specifically what anyone was bringing, the collaboration was astounding and the resulting menu blended together seamlessly and needless to say, the buffet was plentiful.
In keeping with our slow home philosophy, we re-purposed cloth napkins and dishes that we had originally purchased and/or made for our children's B’nai-Mitzvah years ago and made a tablecloth from an upholstery fabric remnant.Using our own silverware, the only disposable items used at the gathering were about thirty plastic cups, which were recyclable.
Tableware set up: Nothing Disposable Here
Irwin took two colors of napkins from the assortment and in lieu of napkin rings, he used a roll of twine we had and rolled and tied each napkin with a simple twine bow; an easy and inexpensive touch that made tremendous visual impact.
Re-purposed napkins tied with everyday twine
Irwin then strategically placed cut flowers from our garden in vintage silver plated champagne glasses as well as a collection of vintage vases we have accumulated over the years.He supplemented our garden’s bounty with flowers Jeanne had purchased at a local farm to complete the arrangements.
Vintage silver plated champagne glass with farm flowers
More home grown flowers
Farm Flowers in our vintage vase
More local flowers in a vintage silver plated bowl
And...More local & farm flowers
our miniature roses
And the food, have I mentioned the food? Well, all of the food we prepared as well as the food that our guests brought was made with locally grown or purchased ingredients and was amazingly fresh and tasty.
My home made pasta w/arugula pesto sun dried tomatoes goat cheese and local grilled corn
Our neighbor Gloria's garden salad made form vegetables she grew in her garden (sorry for the leftovers photo)
Drinks including water, Iced tea and my special vodka cocktail
Jeanne's home made peach & plum pie made with locally grown fruit
my home made cupcakes
Charlie: Ready for guests
Although I stopped taking pictures when the guests arrived, I must list the delicious additions they contributed to the event:
A home made Ceasar salad
A home made Goat Cheese & Pesto Torta
A home made grilled summer squash salad ( squash grown in neighbor's garden)
Home made crab filled finger sandwiches
A fruit salad that included sever types of locally grown plums as well as peaches
An assortment of local artisanal cheeses
A rustic peach pie made by a local farm as well as a mixed berry pie from our local Biodynamic farm
But more than the wonderful food, the time spent getting to know our neighbors was priceless.We met new neighbors to the road as well as long standing residents; weekenders like ourselves as well as full-timers. We shared a meal as well as our love for this special place on our planet and as the evening came to a close and we cleaned up, we all agreed to do this again next year.
Glasses that we frosted for oldest son's bar mitzvah in 2001 now staples in the country
The other day our country neighbor and good friend Jeanne stopped by with her delightful dog Zippy for a collaborative dinner and we once again began the discussion of where to eat.It is not that we have no place to eat, but rather the opposite.The number of places in and around the house available for sitting and especially eating has become somewhat of a joke amongst our friends over the years.
Charlie's good friend & neighbor, Zippy
It is true, we have many places throughout the house, both indoors and out to sit and relax and…to eat.What can we say? Maybe it’s because we both come from families where food is so important, or maybe it is because in our city apartment, we have no outdoor space, and our formal dining room was eliminated years ago and combined with our living room to make way for a much-needed den.Whatever the reason, if you are looking for a place to relax or…eat, we have a place for you!
dining in the great room under ceiling fans is a great alternative on warm evenings
We love spending time in the country and when we are not working on the house, we are usually relaxing and/or entertaining at home.Irwin loves to cook and set a table so we rarely eat out and because Irwin is a creative genius whose mind is constantly churning out new ideas, it is essential that different venues are available for him to work in.
My favorite way to begin an evening: a pitcher of cocktails
Alfresco dining under a tree
Our Dining Room: A thanksgiving favorite
Most breakfasts are served in the kitchen or on the porch, where the usual fare is either my famous blueberry or banana pancakes or Irwin’s world-renowned breakfast frittata made with whatever is available in the fridge.
Our kitchen: open 24/7
the porch: No Reservation needed
irwin's famous frittata
Lunch and dinner can happen almost anywhere but always feel special.
dining on our deck is lovely in the afternoon
So, whether you are two for dinner or serving twelve, have one eating area or more, little changes can go a long way in making“at home” dining special.
We always use an abundance of candles, votives and tea lights.They add warmth and make everything sparkle and glow.
Tea light in vintage cup with fish tank gravel
light, light and more light
When possible, we use cut flowers from our garden; they are easy and inexpensive and always look and smell wonderful.
Fresh garden flowers-always a hit
We usually mix and match glassware, dishes and flatware to create interest.
This mix on our patio is fun
AND…we primarily use cloth napkins with napkin rings.I know, nobody wants to spend time ironing napkins- and the truth is, I don’t.We use lovely cotton and linen napkins that just need to be folded warm from the dryer.
Lovely napkin rings a gift from good friend Maybelline Te
Another feast cooked by non other than Irwin
I know these suggestions seem very basic and they are, but with a little imagination, you too will feel like you are dining out…at home.